Why You Should Be Vague about What Type You’re Looking For

Most guys have a type. There’s nothing wrong with liking what you like, but when you’re filling out your online dating profile you should keep your requirements vague. It will nab you more dates and perhaps broaden your tastes. Here’s why you shouldn’t break out the measuring tape when you’re describing your ideal woman. It’s the Romance Principle Romance heroines usually have only one or two distinguishing features, and the rest is left up to the reader’s imagination. That’s because when women don’t have a set standard of things to attribute to a character she can fill them in with the details of her body, life, etc. This means that she gets a deeper and more emotional payoff out of reading a romance novel. She can literally pretend it’s happening to her. That’s what you want to tap into when you write your profile. You want every woman reading it to feel that, at last, she’s the woman that you’ve been waiting for. That excitement and perception is going to get you unsolicited messages from ladies wanting to hookup with you. Women Have Distorted Self Perception Women are always critical of themselves, but especially of how they look. If you say that you only like “fit” women, your idea of…

Why You Should Ask Her to Get on Birth Control

Birth control can be a touchy subject for some women, and it can be an extremely uncomfortable topic for most guys. However, having a conversation about it is important if you plan on hooking up with a woman more than once. You may not want to talk about it, but asking her to get on birth control can be seriously beneficial to both of you. It may not be the easiest thing to bring up, but it will definitely be worth it in the long run. Knowing all of the reasons why you should bother asking her to get on birth control will convince you to give it a shot. It Adds a Layer of Protection “It will keep you safe” No form of birth control is completely effective. Condoms aren’t always effective and there is always a risk of something going wrong. Having the woman you’re sleeping with get on birth control will add another layer of protection and safety. The chances of her getting pregnant if you use a condom and she’s on birth control are laughably slim. This is one of the biggest reasons why it’s worth asking her to get on birth control. It will ease both of your minds and make sex more enjoyable, since…

Why You Should Always Go Down on Her

“Show her a good time” Whether you plan on having a one night stand or a casual relationship, it’s important to make sure that the sex is as good as possible for both parties involved. This will be extremely beneficial if you want to have a chance of meeting up with the same woman to have sex with her again. One of the best ways to make the sex as good as possible for her is by going down on her. While you might not make a habit of going down on your sexual partners, it’s a good time to start if you want to keep her in bed, and there are plenty of reasons why you should give it special attention. It Makes Her Feel Good This should be obvious, but going down on a woman makes her feel good. She might not be used to oral sex, but either way it’s going to feel good. Obviously, you enjoy blowjobs. Women enjoy having a guy go down on them just as much. Making her feel good is key when it comes to ensuring a woman will want to sleep with you again. Take the extra time and effort to focus on her and make sure that she’s into it.…

Why Pickup Lines Won’t Work

When it comes to pickup lines there are only two factions: either you love them or hate them. Women mostly don’t like pickup lines for their intended use, rather they’re meant as an amusing topic to talk about. Despite this, there are still some men who defend the use of pickup lines and will try to convince you that they’re a great way to start a flirt with a woman. Maybe their advice is meant well, but here are three reasons why you shouldn’t use pickup lines, unless you’re making fun of them: Pickup Lines Are Uncreative Of course someone had to come up with a pickup line before and that’s when that line is still novel. But as soon as it starts spreading, it becomes uncreative. For one, you could use it on every woman you cross, taking away the feeling of being someone special. When you’re trying to flirt with a woman, she wants to feel like she’s the cream of the crop to you. It will also look like you couldn’t be bothered with coming up with something of your own. From her perspective, you won’t only look like someone who isn’t making an effort, but who lacks creativity and self-motivation in all aspects of life. These…

Why Isn’t She Returning Your Messages?

“Waiting for her reply?” It can be frustrating when you message a woman and she never returns your message. Failing to reply back to a message is annoying and rude, but sometimes women have their reasons for why they don’t message men back. If you’ve been messaging women and haven’t been getting messages back, you may need to stop and think about what you’re sending her that is turning her off. She’s Scared of Offending You Women get messages from all types of men. Some of these men are lucky enough to receive messages back, while the rest of us aren’t so lucky. Most of us assume that a woman didn’t reply back to us because she interested in us, but we get annoyed because she could at least have the common courtesy to tell us that. However, women are taught to never upset a man because you never know what he would do in retaliation. Even though she’s online and the chances of you seeing her in person are slim, she still thinks something horrible could happen if she offends you, so she just doesn’t say anything. Another reason women may not reply back to your messages is because she doesn’t want to hurt your feelings. You may be…

Why Being Too Assertive Can Backfire On You

Being assertive is a great way to get ahead in life. However, when you’re overly assertive with women, it’s a quick way to end up single and alone. Women do not care for overly assertive men. To them it gives off the impression of immaturity and aggression. If you’re an assertive guy and have noticed that you’ve been having trouble hooking up with women, it may be time to look at exactly how assertive you are. It Makes You Seem Like a Threat “Being too nice is not what she wants” Many men think the best way to attract women is by appearing to be assertive. Men know what they want and they aren’t afraid to go after it. That is a great mindset to have when you’re thinking about careers or business plans. However, that frame of mind when it comes to women is an entirely different ballpark. Whatever you have been told about women wanting overly assertive men, forget about it. Women do not want men who are too assertive. The main reason for this is because it makes them think that you are a threat. Women are stalked and preyed after all types of men. Many women know firsthand that the more assertive a man is, the…

When Should You Ask to Meet Her in Person?

Asking to meet a woman in person can be tricky. You have to make sure that you are jumping the gun too quickly, or you will risk her thinking that you are up to no good. Luckily, it is ridiculously easy to discover the best times to ask to meet up with women from dating websites. When You Have Her Other Contact Information “If she gives you her personal number, go for it” You may be wondering when the best time to ask to meet a woman in person if you met her on a dating website. Some men make the mistake of asking to meet a woman in person after just a few messages. When you do this, all you really end up doing is startling a woman into thinking that you are moving too quickly. Asking to meet a woman in person should come after the two of you feel comfortable with each other. While you may have no problems with meeting up after just seeing a photo and a bit of chatting, women may not feel the same way. Women like to make sure that they are safe when they meet up with men, so if she doesn’t have enough information about you, she will be quick…

When Should You Ask for Her Contact Information?

“Let her trust you first” Sometimes we meet women and want to be able to connect with them right away. The problem with that is that women are taught to be apprehensive of meeting up with men. When you ask a woman for her contact information online, she doesn’t know if you’re an OK guy or if you’re a serial killer. Give It Some Time “Don’t ask for her number right off the bat – you’ll get rejected” One of the biggest mistakes men make when it comes to online dating is not knowing when to ask for a woman’s contact information. Women like online dating not only because it’s convenient, but also because it’s safe. Although, most women may not tell you, many of them are terrified when it comes to dating because they don’t know what type of man they’re going to end up with. Online dating allows a woman to have some sort of control over the men that she meets, knowing that she can dismiss them if she feels uncomfortable, rather than pretending to be interested in fear of some sort of retaliation if she isn’t. When you have connected with a woman through online dating, do not send her a message after three messages of…

What Not to Include in Your Profile

“Be aware of what you are sharing” Figuring out what to put in your profile can be tricky. Luckily, one thing that isn’t tricky is figuring out what not to put in it. When you want to meet as many women as possible, there are a couple of things that you should always avoid including in your profile. Whether or Not You’re Looking for Short-term or Long-term Dating “You will lose a girl like her, if you have put short-term dating preferred only in your profile” A lot of times, men like to let women know whether or not they are looking for anything serious while using a date website. While it is good to include what type of dating status you’re looking for, it does have its drawbacks. One major issue that comes with stating what type of dating status you are looking for is that it rules out other women. For example, if you post on your dating profile that you are only looking for short-term dating, then you may run the risk of hooking up with a beautiful woman who is looking for long-term dating. When you tell women that you are only looking for a specific type of dating, it will make some women feel that…

What Method of Communication Should You Use to Chat with Ladies?

Once you and a lady have started to click you’re going to want to take the conversation offsite. Getting her off the dating site is the first step to getting her in your bed. Relationships that stay in the dating site sphere tend to get stagnant and don’t progress. Now that you’re ready to make the switch, where should you go? Facebook Is a Bad Idea Facebook has a convenient chat system, and the smartphone apps mean that you’ll be able to get updates that she’s sent you a message as soon as she sends this. The means that a lot of guys try to take a conversation right to Facebook from a dating site. This is a bad idea. A lot of women like to date on the down low, so they don’t want you up in every aspect of their lives as soon as she’s agreed to talk to you more. The reverse is also true. Do you really want this random woman to see all of your business? This can only end poorly, especially if you intend to only have a one night stand with her and then move on. Email Is Really Slow Email is more intimate than a message over a dating service, but it’s…


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