“To convince her to go down isn’t easy”
Getting a woman to give you a blowjob isn’t always easy. After all, it probably takes a bit of convincing for you to want to go down on a woman. This can be frustrating during hookups or casual relationships, but there are ways to convince a woman to go down on you. All you need to know is how to make the idea appealing to her, and there are plenty of ways to go about that. Knowing how to convince her to go down on you can make your sex life much better, so read on to find out what you should be doing.
Make It Worth Her While
There usually isn’t much in it for a woman who gives a guy a blowjob. She isn’t getting any kind of stimulation out of it, after all, which means that she’s not being pleasured at all. A woman might be reluctant to go down on you just because of this. In order to convince a woman who’s annoyed by the lack of pleasure she’ll receive when giving you a blowjob, you have to offer her pleasure. Offer to trade sexual favors and go down on her later, or make sure to do something she likes in bed afterwards. Even something as simple as a massage or a foot rub may be enough to convince her to take the time to go down on you. She wants to get something out of it, too, so make sure that she does and she should be more than happy to agree.
Be Persuasive and Use Your Situation to Your Advantage
There are certain times when you may be able to convince her to go down on you more easily than others. If a woman is tired or has the famous headache, she might not be in the mood for regular sex. This is your time to strike. With any luck you’ll be able to convince her to go down on you since you won’t be having full sex. This may also work if she’s on her period and she isn’t comfortable with having sex during that time. You might be able to score plenty of blowjobs like this, so just be charming and persuasive and try to give her a good reason as to why she should do it.
Knowing When to Give Up
“If she tries to stay above the base – Give up”
Unfortunately, there are just times when you aren’t going to be able to convince her to go through with it. It’s important to know when to give up because if you let up on her and don’t bother her about it too much, she may be more willing to consider it later on. Be polite and thoughtful and let it go if she seems really annoyed by the idea. After all, it wouldn’t be that great of a blowjob if you had to beg her for it, anyway. Save the big guns for when she seems a bit more willing to do it, and make sure to try all of the tactics above to do so.