“You can have fun at your desk job”
It’s easy to use your job to impress women when you’re a gold medal winning snowboarder or a man whose entire job is to rescue puppies and nurse them back to health. If you’re a regular guy, however, it can be tough to think of a way to spin your 9 to 5 to attract the attention of a lady. With the right attitude and phrasing, however, that desk job can be just the thing to get you what you want.
Stability Is a Big Plus
You might think that it’s boring, but to a woman looking for a little stability in her life your desk job could be a big plus. When you talk about work with her make sure that you emphasis how stable it is. Other guys might come and go but you’re all but guaranteed to still have a job at year’s end, and next year, and the year after if you want it. You might not be intending to stay at your job forever, but you should make clear to her that whatever happens is going to be your choice. You get to say whether or not you’ll stay and in this economy that’s novel enough on its own.
Clear Division Between Work and Home
If you have a desk job there’s one major advantage that most people who don’t have one tend to overlook. When you’re done for the day, you’re done for the day. You don’t have to bring work home with you and you don’t have to worry about whether or not that big meeting is going to go through. You work hard when you’re at work, but you’re your own man when you’re not at work. You have all the time in the world to devote to a lady. Make her see that and you’ll have a much better track record with women returning your calls. Ladies like to feel like they’re the only thing in your life and if you can establish that clear division between work and home early enough she’ll know that she really is.
Little Victories Impress Her
“Offering to help may impress her”
When you’re working a desk job you have countless little battles each day. Whether you have to wrestle the mighty copy machine into submission or just make sure that that lazy weasel you work with doesn’t get the credit for hard word that you’ve been doing doesn’t matter. All the matters is that you’ll have plenty of success stories to bring home to a woman. They don’t want to hear about your boring day or whether or not you had fun at work. They want to hear that they’re with a man who can and does conquer his surroundings. As cave man as it sounds, make sure that you’re telling her about the little victories that mark your days it will impress her and keep her coming back for more.
A desk job might not look impressive on paper, so it’s up to you to sell it to her. Never downplay your job yourself; let her know that it’s actually a big deal and she’ll treat you with the respect you deserve.