There’s a lot of pressure to be interesting when you take a woman out on a date. You don’t want to broach any topic that could even be thought to be boring. That means that you’re cutting out a lot of things that she really does want to talk about. Women and men don’t always have the same ideas about what’s interesting. If you can stand to let these conversations go on, you can enjoy a greater chance of winning her favor.
Your Work Relationships
You might not see anything special in how you handled a work conflict, but she will. Women are always on the lookout for a man with a temper. This is especially true if you met her online. The best thing that you could do on a date is mention a little work related squabble that you handled well. The better it resolved for you, the better. You don’t have to go into too much detail, but there’s nothing wrong with outlining a few of your main friends and enemies in the office. She’ll be interested in getting a look at how you function and you can blow off a little work related steam. Just make sure that you don’t go into rant mode when you’re talking to her. It’s good to be open, but you don’t want to come off as argumentative or worse, wrong.
Pets, Pets, Pets
Even women who don’t love babies are going to love pets. More than that, loving your pets will be the first chance she has to gauge whether you’re a good guy or not. People love people who love animals. It’s just a fact of life. Loving pets is seen as being compassionate, empathetic, honest, and trustworthy. This is totally not fair; even if you’re not a pet person you can still be compassionate and have a great character. That’s not the way the average person sees it, though. If you have a pet don’t be afraid to mention them a couple times during the conversation, and share an anecdote or two. You’ll look like the empathetic hero and she’ll be eager to meet your animal companion.
You probably don’t want to talk about all the women you’ve ever dated while you’re on a date with one woman. And you’re shouldn’t. However, that doesn’t meant that you should avoid bringing up sex or your sexual history completely. You might find it awkward or boring, but mentioning that you’ve been around the block once or twice before will let her know that you know what you’re doing. She’ll be more likely to go home with you if she has reason to believe you’ll be good in bed. Open up with a little cunning. Talk about a lady you know who liked the same thing you’re talking about now, and then casually mention that you used to date her. Do this once or twice and you’ll see that she has the idea that you know your way around in bed.