Ways to Make Her Less Nervous about Hooking Up

While you are probably more nervous about meeting women than the actual process of hooking up with them, for women it can sometimes be the opposite. She might be more nervous about hooking up with you than anything else. If a woman is nervous about hooking up, she may be more reluctant to actually go home with you and it can make you lose a chance at hooking up. It’s important to make her comfortable and less nervous about the whole process so that she doesn’t back out. Knowing how to make a woman more comfortable with you will help you hook up with more women, so you really can’t go wrong by learning all about it.

Show Her That You’re Safe

“Make sure she is comfortable around you”

One of the biggest reasons why women tend to be uncomfortable and nervous about hooking up with guys is that she’s worried about safety. Unfortunately, there are plenty of creeps out there who might try to take advantage of a woman. She has every reason to be concerned about her safety, so it’s your job to make her feel comfortable with you. She needs to know that you are normal and safe and will not hurt her. There is nothing in particular you need to do in order to accomplish this. Just make sure that she feels safe with you by looking out for her safety. Be calm and confident and don’t be too clingy, or she might start to get uncomfortable. The last thing you want to do is scare her off by not making her feel safe around you.

Let Her Pick the Location

“Let her choose the meeting location”

If she wants to meet up, you can make her feel safe by letting her pick the location where you meet. Sure, she may pick a location where she can have her very own wing-woman in place, but it will be worth it. Letting her choose where you meet up and where you hook up puts her in control and allows her to make the decisions about the situation. This can go a very long way in making her comfortable about the entire process, so it’s worth letting her pick where you meet. If she seems unsure, pick a few locations out and then let her pick which one she likes best. You’re still giving her the choice, which is all that matters.

Do What She Wants

Always listen to what she wants. This is the most important thing you can do when hooking up with a woman. If she wants you to do something, do it to the best of your ability. If she wants you to stop doing something, don’t do it anymore. This seems obvious, but some guys tend to forget it. You’re almost always going to wind up satisfied anyway, so making the experience as good for her as possible will definitely make her more likely to want to hook up again. If nothing else, it’ll make her more comfortable with the idea of hooking up with you to begin with.


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