Why Isn’t She Returning Your Messages?

“Waiting for her reply?”

It can be frustrating when you message a woman and she never returns your message. Failing to reply back to a message is annoying and rude, but sometimes women have their reasons for why they don’t message men back. If you’ve been messaging women and haven’t been getting messages back, you may need to stop and think about what you’re sending her that is turning her off.

She’s Scared of Offending You

Women get messages from all types of men. Some of these men are lucky enough to receive messages back, while the rest of us aren’t so lucky. Most of us assume that a woman didn’t reply back to us because she interested in us, but we get annoyed because she could at least have the common courtesy to tell us that. However, women are taught to never upset a man because you never know what he would do in retaliation. Even though she’s online and the chances of you seeing her in person are slim, she still thinks something horrible could happen if she offends you, so she just doesn’t say anything.

Another reason women may not reply back to your messages is because she doesn’t want to hurt your feelings. You may be a great guy, but if she isn’t interested, then she simply isn’t interested. However, she may not want to tell you that and risk hurting your feelings. A lot of women have no idea how to let someone down gently, or how to tell a man that she isn’t interested in him. In person they can lie and say they are married or have a boyfriend. Unfortunately, they cannot use this same lie on a dating website.

It’s Your Message, or Your Profile

“Don’t send anything sexual in your first message”

If you send a message to a woman and you’re expecting one back only to never receive one, it’s probably because your initial message to her was a turn off. When you’re sending messages to women online, it’s the same as making a first impression to her in public. If your message is full of text chat, misspellings, and poor grammar, she isn’t going to be interested. If your message is half-hearted or ridiculously sexual compliments, she’s going to delete it without a second thought.

Women may also ignore your message if they go to your profile and find it to be blank or incomplete. Sometimes the tone of your profile may even prevent women from replying back to you. If your profile gives off the impression that you are angry, bitter, or depressed, don’t be surprised if she never messages you back.

If you want women to message you back, you are going to have to show them that you are worth their time. Do not send her messages filled with compliments about her body or how beautiful she is. You also shouldn’t make your message entirely about you or her. Ask her questions. Make her want to reply back to you. If you sent what you think is a respectable message to show your interest and she doesn’t reply back, it’s time to move on to someone who is actually worth your time.


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