What You Should (and Shouldn’t) Chat About On a First Date

It’s a given that certain conversation topics aren’t as good as others, but some are just right out horrible. Others, however, are great, and fortunately, we really know how to talk to women, and can steer you in the right direction from day one and a half.

You’ll be ready to go.

Learning how to small talk isn’t a skill that everyone naturally has, and that’s okay. That’s why you’ve just got to know a few central points to focus on and go with.

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This might sound like a common sense dating tip, but you’d be surprised how many men really just don’t grasp the idea of talking about what interests her first and foremost.

If you can really focus on her interests and hobbies, you’re going to be set. She wants to talk about herself, and bonus points if they’re things that you’re really into, too.

Keep away from politics.

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It should be a given that politics, money, and religion generally aren’t great first date topics. These are things that should be discussed much later, and that’ll help keep your dating tactics on track.

Sadly, if you touch on these topics too soon, you might find yourself in a sticky situation. It’s honestly just better to leave them alone, and that’s something we firmly believe in.

If you keep the conversation light, that’s much better. That’s going to make her relax, and make it a fun evening rather than one that leaves you both looking at the clock.

Don’t talk about sad things.

In general, talking about your neglected childhood or your wife that died years ago isn’t really going to do you any favors. Keep it light, and keep it cheerful in general.

She doesn’t want to be with someone that’s a giant drama queen, and you don’t want to be with one, either. If you keep it fun, you’re both going to have a much more enjoyable evening overall.

And if not, there are plenty more women out there to meet.


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