Obviously, the end-all, be-all of our dating guide is actually meeting up with the ladies that you’re meeting online. Fortunately, our dating tips are all geared towards this end game.
It’s easier than you’d think.
The thing about these ladies is that they really do want to end up meeting a fun, confident guy to spend their time with. That’s why you just have to present yourself that way.
We understand that it can be difficult to really get down to the act of actually asking her to meet in person, but after a certain point, there are only so many conversations you can have online.
If she’s long-distance, that’s another stone in your path, but you just have to buckle down and plan. That’s the key to ultimately making all online dating really work.
Be direct and specific.
Don’t just ask her to meet up for coffee sometime. Have an event, a place, and a time in mind, and present her with that as an option to actually and really meet up with you.
By being open about this sort of thing, you’ll actually have a much better chance of getting her attention. She’ll know that you’re really serious, and that you’ve actually put effort into this.
Women like to have a specific time and direction. They like for you to be blunt, open, and honest. If you can’t be those things, then you need to fake it until you make it.
If she’s reluctant, it’s for a reason.
This is why you always need to make sure that your first meeting place is somewhere public and very easily accessible. Don’t invite her to a back alleyway in a city she’s unfamiliar with.
The more comfortable she is, the better. Go out of your way to appease her on this first meet-up, and it’s going to make everything a lot easier for you in the future.