Why Managing the Day After the First Date is Key to Getting a Second

Online dating is a tricky subject; we just want to make it easier for you. While that first date is incredibly important, the day after is just as important when it comes to our dating how-to guide. You really need to know how to get a second date, and we’ve got the dating tips to make it happen.

Let it cool down a bit.

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While you might have had a great time with her last night, there’s no need to harass her right off the bat. Wait a day to let things cool down before you start messaging her.

This also applies to even if she had a good time as well. It might be overwhelming for either of you to start bombarding each other with messages the next day.

Whatever you do, don’t harass her for another date right off the bat. Just check in with her with that first message, and let her know that you had an amazing time with her last night.

Don’t think with your dick.

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We get it, she’s really pretty and she’s really into you, too. That being said, you can’t get too sexual too fast, or you’re never going to get that second date. Wait for her cues.

If you can do that, then you’re going to be golden. Let her make the move after those first messages, and you’ll really be able to see when the time is right to move along those lines.

But wait, remember–this is just about that second date. Don’t focus on the sex just yet. Ask her instead about going out with her again, instead of when she can pick up some condoms.

Keep it classy, always.

You don’t want to smother her with your presence. You want her to think that you’re amazing, and that you’re one of the best catches she ever could have gotten online.

To do that, it’s all a matter of giving her enough attention to make her feel like a princess, but not enough to make her feel like she’s a princess in a tower. See the difference?


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