Why You Should Be Vague about What Type You’re Looking For

Most guys have a type. There’s nothing wrong with liking what you like, but when you’re filling out your online dating profile you should keep your requirements vague. It will nab you more dates and perhaps broaden your tastes. Here’s why you shouldn’t break out the measuring tape when you’re describing your ideal woman. It’s the Romance Principle Romance heroines usually have only one or two distinguishing features, and the rest is left up to the reader’s imagination. That’s because when women don’t have a set standard of things to attribute to a character she can fill them in with the details of her body, life, etc. This means that she gets a deeper and more emotional payoff out of reading a romance novel. She can literally pretend it’s happening to her. That’s what you want to tap into when you write your profile. You want every woman reading it to feel that, at last, she’s the woman that you’ve been waiting for. That excitement and perception is going to get you unsolicited messages from ladies wanting to hookup with you. Women Have Distorted Self Perception Women are always critical of themselves, but especially of how they look. If you say that you only like “fit” women, your idea of…

How to Stop Getting Psyched out about Hooking Up

“Avoid Nervous breakdown while dating” The dating and hookup scene isn’t exactly the most welcoming scene. You might feel intimidated about it quite frequently, and it may cause you to get nervous about hooking up. Psyching yourself out about hooking up is an easy way to ensure that you will not go home with any women that night. You have to learn how to relax. Being too high-strung will guarantee that you will drive women away. There’s no reason to make things more difficult than they need to be, and being too anxious can make that far too easy. Learning how to relax when you hit the dating scene will only benefit you and allow you to meet and hook up with more women. Why You Need to Take It Easy “A relaxed state of mind is important for a better conversation” It’s important to be calm and collected when you want to hook up with women, but you may not really understand why it is so important. It’s important to be calm when you want to hook up because it will make you more confident. Women can spot a nervous guy from miles away and it’s not going to do you any favors, so you need to try and…

How to Avoid Answering Certain Questions

“Know how to distract her from a topic while conversing” Sometimes we want to avoid answering certain questions that will make us less desirable to women. When it comes to avoiding answering questions, the best option is a believable lie that will end up making her feel guilty for asking you that question in the first place Don’t Be Too Basic Many times men get caught off guard with questions from women that we don’t want to answer. When this happens, most of us lie and hope for the best. The problem with that is that a lot of times, women know what to look for when it comes to men lying, and they are able to catch us in our lies with ease. While some people are just no good at lying, for most people, lying can be easy if you know what to say, and more importantly, how to say it. The best way to avoid answering any question that you don’t want women to know the answer to is to make her feel sympathy for you. For instance, a woman may ask you what happened between you and your last girlfriend. A lot of men respond by saying that, “It just didn’t work out.” We don’t recommend…


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